Behind Their Screens: What Teens Are Facing (And Adults Are Missing)
Deep Insights
Cambridge, Massachusetts: MIT Press (2022), 229 pp.
Contains index
ISBN 978-0-262-37142-1 (ebook); 978-0-262-04735-7 (pbk)
Signature commbox: 70-Children/Youth-E 2022
"What are teens actually doing on their smartphones? Contrary to many adults’ assumptions, they are not simply “addicted” to their screens, oblivious to the afterlife of what they post, or missing out on personal connection. They are just trying to navigate a networked world. In Behind Their Screens, Emily Weinstein and Carrie James, Harvard researchers who are experts on teens and technology, explore the complexities that teens face in their digital lives, and suggest that many adult efforts to help—“Get off your phone!” “Just don’t sext!”—fall short. Weinstein and James warn against a single-minded focus by adults on “screen time.” Teens worry about dependence on their devices, but disconnecting means being out of the loop socially, with absence perceived as rudeness or even a failure to be there for a struggling friend. Drawing on a multiyear project that surveyed more than 3,500 teens, the authors explain that young people need empathy, not exasperated eye-rolling. Adults should understand the complicated nature of teens’ online life rather than issue commands, and they should normalize—let teens know that their challenges are shared by others—without minimizing or dismissing. Along the way, Weinstein and James describe different kinds of sexting and explain such phenomena as watermarking nudes, comparison quicksand, digital pacifiers, and collecting receipts." (Publisher description)
"The insights and arguments in this book emerged primarily from a large, mixed-methods study of tweens' and teens' perspectives on digital life that we carried out between 2017 and 2021. We launched this study, the Digital Dilemmas Project, with the aim of understanding young people's perceptions of the upsides and challenges of the digital landscape at that time. We also wanted to understand the ways adults were supporting them, and implications for new or revised supports. Our broad questions were: How are young people navigating thorny digital issues and dilemmas that surface in networked life? How are adults supporting them? What more could adults do? Our inquiry included digital issues and dilemmas that spanned four spheres: personal well-being, close relationships and intimacy, peers and community, and the broader civic or public sphere. When we set out to do this research, we envisioned our findings being mainly directed toward new or improved educational materials. Our home base is at Project Zero, a research center at the Harvard Graduate School of Education. Our longstanding partnership with Common Sense Media was key. Carrie first collaborated with Common Sense Media in 2006 to support development of their research-based Digital Literacy and Citizenship curriculum. Over fifteen years later, Common Sense Media is a leader in providing digital educational resources to schools in the United States and, increasingly, around the world. In 2017, we partnered with Common Sense Media once again this time, to bring fresh insights from empirical research to support updates to their curriculum. As we collected our data, we saw immediate implications for the content of curricular lessons and pedagogical approaches. These insights were leveraged in short order to develop and pilot test new materials for schools. But we also came to see that our data had relevance beyond schools. The more we began to share selected insights from our survey, the more we realized that what we were learning had relevance for a broader audience, including parents, mental health professionals, youth development organizations, and technology companies. This book is one outcome of a quest to bring this research to a larger public stage. Throughout the book, we've referred to our surveys, interviews, classroom observations, and youth advisory council sessions. Further details follow about these studies and our research participants. Because we have worked on these topics for over a decade, we've also had a steady stream of opportunities to have less formal discussions with teens, parents, and professionals who work with youth. These discussions often surface stories that corroborate themes in our more formal studies. They also showcase tensions through real-world dilemmas." (Appendix, pages 179-180)
Introduction: What are We Missing? Why Does it Matter? 1
1 Digital Worries in Context, 15
2 The Pull of the Screen, 31
3 Friendship Dilemmas, 53
4 Small Slights, Big Fights, 73
5 Nudes (And Why Teens Sext When they Know the Risks), 93
6 The Political is (Inter)Personal-and Vice Versa, 115
7 Digital Footprints that (May) Last a Lifetime, 137
Conclusion: The Digital Agency Argument, 161
Acknowledgments, 175
Appendix: The Research Behind Behind their Screens, 179
1 Digital Worries in Context, 15
2 The Pull of the Screen, 31
3 Friendship Dilemmas, 53
4 Small Slights, Big Fights, 73
5 Nudes (And Why Teens Sext When they Know the Risks), 93
6 The Political is (Inter)Personal-and Vice Versa, 115
7 Digital Footprints that (May) Last a Lifetime, 137
Conclusion: The Digital Agency Argument, 161
Acknowledgments, 175
Appendix: The Research Behind Behind their Screens, 179